The Human Nature

Ever thought of this topic??? “The Human nature”…
Very vast one of course and cannot be covered in just one post. U can consider this as the first part and the rest of the parts may or may not follow depending on my mood :)...

Hmm so there comes a human nature… being moody…
I have met many ppl in my life and all have different different nature. No two person I have met who have same nature. May be similar, but never the same.
Well, God would have done a lot of hard work to create so much of variety…

Well, I have many friends. Some are happy go lucky kinds who don’t get worried about anything, and some who take everything seriously. Some who are always ready to do just anything for others , and some who are very much self oriented or selfish, whichever way u like to call it. Some are not at all moody, some are. Some are confident, and some lack it very much. Some have a positive outlook towards life, some see only the negative aspect of life. Some like to have a smile on their face always, some prefer to have a grim expression. Well, the list doesn’t end here, but I better not make it an unending list… Hmm you can read an “etc” after the list. (A very intelligent word it is: etc. It makes people believe that you actually know more than what you have stated ;) ).

Add 10 points for yourself, if u have a nature that comes before the comma in the above list. (eg. In the sentence: Some like to have a smile on their face always, some prefer to have a grim expression….if u fall in the "like to have a smile on their face always category", add on 10)
and if your total adds up to 40 or above, you are a good human being…
he he he obviously, I am kidding.

Well jokes apart, there exist some strange kinna ppl on this earth who cannot see anything/ anyone other than themselves. These kinna ppl are called the selfish kinds. Which ever circumstance they face, they somehow tend to think as to “how is it going to affect me?” they never think “if I do it this way, will it help others”. Well, not many ppl think in the later way. Its very difficult to be selfless but I guess it wont be that difficult to think in this way “It should affect me positively and should not hurt others too at the same time”.

Recently met a kind who have a problem accepting their faults. Is it that difficult to accept your fault if u know that you are actually wrong. They somehow analyze everyone else on this world other than themselves and point out other's mistakes but somehow never see the mistakes they themselves make. And even if someone points it to them, they have a problem accepting it. They prefer to ignore it rather than accept the same. Well, if you ever have a problem with someone and you realize at some point of time that you are wrong, then accept it. Say sorry, and of course “mean it”!. Believe me, it doesn’t hurt at all. The other person will only appreciate your gesture.

Hmm, another category, and a very interesting one: the “Mr./Ms. Know it all” kinds.
Well, these people seem to know about just anything and everything under the sky. And will have a view about just everything and seem to have experienced and faced every possible situation. Hmm, they also feel that they are “Mr./Ms perfect” :)

Some are mature to the core. And some at the same time are just too immature.
Have met ppl who are just too mature for their age. They think everything in a very logical manner. They know: what to do, when to do and how to do. They, actually can, face just any situation.

Have a friend who faces life very coolly. And u know? He never had to struggle for anything so far, as far as I know. He has got all that he wanted and never had to ask for it.
Probably, if you think positive, you will get positive results. And vice versa.

Will u believe it? A friend of mine was asked to go as an external examiner in his college after 5 yrs of passing out and he accepted it without thinking twice. Well, it’s not that easy to judge a student if you yourself are not thorough with the subject. And it’s only very natural to forget what you studied 5 yrs back. Well, what he showed was confidence in himself and also it proves his memory and intelligence too.
Ever wondered why we forget what we studied in our previous year’s classes but somehow tend to be able to recollect the lines of a song that, may be, you would have last sung 10-11 yrs back???
Hey, will tell you a funny incident that happened to one of my friend during her college days. I know I am deviating from the topic, but I don’t mind it :).
Well, she realized the fact stated above and hence decided to make use of it in a positive way. What she did was, she replaced the lyrics of one of her favorite songs with the formula that she had to memorize. It was fitting perfect with the tune of the song that she had selected. Well, the D day came, and luckily the same question came in the paper. She was very happy to see that question. But, fate had some other plans for her :(. She could recollect the song and the tune perfectly but could not recollect the lyrics that she had put in!!!! I guess, that’s life ;) ha ha ha

Well, coming back to the topic.

Another category is the “too good to be true” kinds.
This phrase is used for ppl who seem to be sooooo good that they cannot be true.
Hey, ever met a kind that is too good and true at the same time?
Well, I have. I actually know two ppl who fall under this category.
You wont believe it but, they think about others before thinking about themselves. They somehow don’t have any kind of jealousy, or any ego. They accept their faults graciously...
Well, I find myself lucky that they both are very good friends of mine :).

To be contd…

NB:

1)Hmm, now don’t ask me what kinna person I am :)

2) Hey ppl, there is one important thing that I would like to tell you all. Kindly donot misunderstand that I classify my friends. My friends may not be perfect, they may have negatives in them, but they are my friends and i simply love them just the way they are :). Must have heard rt, that "noone is perfect untill u fall in love with them":)...

3) Also, want to tell that when I have made a conclusion about someone's nature, I have done that after analysing them well and knowing them well enough for a long enough duration as making a conclusion about a person by meeting him/her only once or twice would be a wrong thing to do. You will, most of the times, reach a wrong conclusion in that case as the mood or reaction of a person are mostly influenced by the situation n circumstances too.