Do you mean what you say???

If I ask you ki which are the most commonly used words, then most of u might say that its “thanks” n “sorry”.
Well, that’s true.
I know, that you too use it pretty often. But do you actually mean it when you say it?

Well, when do you say sorry?.. You say so when you feel that you have done something wrong and that you need to apologise. And when do you say thanks? Its when you feel that someone has done a favor for you or has helped you in some way or the other and that you are actually thankful to them.. Well, if you note, these words are to be told when you actually feel those emotions. Not when you know that you should use them just to sound polite.
Being polite and sounding polite are entirely different. You can make out the difference from the way its told.
Wen you say sorry or thanks, look into the eyes… It conveys that you actually mean it…
Well, there was an incident when I was trying to make a friend understand why I felt that what she did was wrong. After a long discussion, she said “well, I am sorry” …she said it but didn’t mean it. Those words were so emotionless that it made me wonder why I wasted my time for her…

Have you wished anyone on their wedding or engagement or any other occasion off late? Yes you must have.
But just think and tell frankly.. did you mean the wish when you said it?
I have seen ppl, all excited about their friends birthday, preparing n planning for it days back, calling them up many a times on the D'day to wish them… all just to make the b’day boy/girl feel special on their special day… All this shows that you actually care for that person.
Have also seen friends, who just wish for wishing sake..
But, here too you can make out who actually wishes “dil se” and who is just being formal.
Even if you are far away from your friend, the way you wish, the happiness and excitement in your voice tells the listener that you love them, care for them and that you want them to be happy on their special day and always..

If you yourself are upset about something and still you call up to wish the other person keeping your worries aside for a while, it gives double happiness to them… it shows they are important to you… also it makes you yourself feel better that you chould be a part of someone's happiness or may be.. a reason for it…
If you are very busy doing some work, then don’t call then. Call up when you have atleast five min to spare and when your mind is free. Calling up, just wishing and telling that you are already preoccupied doesnt make sense.

Also, be careful when you say something..take the case when you are angry... You may say something wrong to someone in anger and later say sorry and may be, you mean that "sorry" too... but that wont heel the harm already done to the relation. The other person might forgive u but the scar always remains... So, think before u speak...Remember that "Words once uttered can never be taken back..."

When you tell that you will finish a particular work, then finish it… as the other person expect…
When you tell someone that you ‘ll call back in some time, do call up…as the other person waits..
When you say "I love u", mean it.. as its linked with someones emotions...

Well... I feel that the only mantra to be true not just to others but to yourself too.. is “mean what you say and also do what you say”...